Wayne had his 4th surgery which was his 5th trip to the hospital.  From here on out… I will simply call them all “surgeries” since he has to do the entire process… check in, physical, drops, pokes/prods, take him from us, anesthesia, IV, breathing tube, clip his eyes open, check pressures, etc.  He won’t actually have surgery on his eye(s) each time… but for us and him… it is surgery.  So, like I said, Wayne had surgery for the 5th time Monday, at All Children’s.  The doctor said the pressures were 14 in his right eye (after surgery the week before with no drops) and that is just fantastic!  I won’t get my hopes up… but for TODAY that is great.  My wife is letting herself feel a little excited (as is the doctor… we can tell) and that’s great for her… but I’ll stay a little pessimistic about it all – if you don’t mind.  He doesn’t go back for 3 weeks and we are hoping that his pressures will be low in both eyes so we can avoid any cutting on his eye.  That’s always what we are hoping for… low pressures.

We have officially begun a new chapter in our lives… Christopher has begun Kindergarten!  Yah!  It is a bittersweet feeling – we hate having him with someone else all the time… not knowing what he is doing every second of the day, but we LOVE that he is able to be around others in an environment where he will thrive.  He is already impressing everyone he meets too!  We are not even through a whole week yet and he has already settled in to the routine.  We’ve almost got a set routine in the morning.  It’s really weird how much your life changes in only a week!  Before this week… we all woke up around 7:30-8am.  Ate breakfast.  Cleaned up the house and ourselves.  Finally, decided we needed to get out and do something around 11:00am, but most times it was too darn hot!  Nap time.  Rack our brains to figure out what to do in the afternoon.  Boredom.  Not now!  Up at 5:50am… show… get dressed… light snack… out the door.  I actually get to get some work done… and I get to start it at 8:00am instead of at 10 or 11am!  Wow!  lol

Kevin has started school too.  We had to get him enrolled in pre-school because Laura is taking a full load this semester and I am trying to get a full-time job.  And in January, Laura will be interning full-time.  She is almost done with the first step of living her passion… being a teacher for the visually impaired.  Just this month she took her “Professional Educator’s Test” with the state of Florida and passed!  First time… Yah for her!  So, Kevin started school this week too.  Monday he cried the entire morning… didn’t eat… was really fussy and seemed miserable.  Tuesday, a little less crying… still pretty fussy… and not happy.  Yesterday, he wasn’t fussy at all… but didn’t want to “go to school” either and let us know it.  Today, he was happy all morning.  No crying.  No fussiness.  Happy.  And he knew he was going to school.  Amazing how quickly kids adapt.  Scary too.  And … sad.

A new chapter has officially begun.  So much has changed.  Even “the eye wars” have shifted focus a little.  Since Christopher’s pressures were fine last visit a week ago and he doesn’t have to come back for 3 months… we have begun to ready ourselves for other sinister attacks on his vision… mainly… PINK EYE!  😦  It is so prevalent in school and it is truly a scary thing for him.  But we’ve prepared.  We are vigilant about checking his eyes.  We have taught him to wash his hands all the time for cleanliness.  We’ve wrote it on every form the school has that we need to know if anyone in his class has pink eye… right away.  We’ve made best friends with everyone that works at his school that we possible can at this point.  We just want to make sure his eyes are a priority in his life.  It is a lot of work… But, I’d MUCH rather be worrying about potential problems than high pressures and surgeries right now!

Even though it is a new chapter… we are, of course, still in the same book.  Same overall theme.  Same tone.  Same characters.  But I will happily take the new chapter.  In fact, I will still take it one page at a time…

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